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# Accept it when I can't change it

I am from a culture in which I'll reflect on what I did constantly, which part I did is problematic, how come I didn't think about something, etc. It was supposed to be a powerful habit to replay and learn from it, but I got back-fired because I over-did it and I also have a strong imposter syndrome. 

For those who have a similar character, please note that set a time processing the emotion. Also, tell me that \`it is done, and I can't change it\` and try to accept it.